abandonment issues
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phr.片語遺棄問題（心理學）
She has abandonment issues stemming from her childhood.
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身為黑人遇到美國警察攔查能多驚慌？！ (“Getting Pulled Over In America” - Trevor Noah - (Lost In Translation))
- Do you have abandonment issues? Why would you shoot a man?
你有被遺棄情節嗎？你為什麼要射殺一個人？
- Abandonment issues?
然後他把我塞回我的窗戶裡。
學習情感恆定，療癒了我的拋棄創傷！ (I healed my abandonment issues by learning emotional permanence)
- Guys, let's talk not about my fabulous top, but about abandonment issues.
各位，我們今天不聊我這件超讚的上衣，而是來談談情感創傷。
- about abandonment issues, because for the past year I have made so much progress,
因為在過去這一年，我進步了很多，這都要歸功於一個觀念。
患有邊緣性人格障礙 (BPD) 還可能愛嗎？ (Is Love Possible When You Suffer BPD)
- Dating with BPD feels like trying to hold on to water. No matter how tight you grip, it slips through your fingers. One moment you're terrified they'll leave, the next you're pushing them away just to test if they'll stay. Why does love feel like both the cure and the poison? Well first, let's talk about what BPD really is. BPD stands for borderline personality disorder and it's a condition where one has difficulty regulating their emotions, suffers from high sensitivity to rejection, and usually experiences dysfunction in managing interpersonal relationships. We have a video on how to know when your partner might have BPD, so feel free to check it out. But that's only one side of the coin. When you have BPD and you're in a romantic relationship, there are a whole lot of problems that are not so easy to spot from the outside. Dating with BPD isn't just a challenge, it's a storm of contradictions. One moment you're drowning in love, the next you're gasping for air, convinced your partner will vanish. The fear of abandonment isn't just a symptom, it's a constant whisper in the back of your mind. We interviewed Magenta, who has BPD, about her experience with romance and well, she summarizes it perfectly. I suffer from abandonment issues all the time. I find myself always being worried if my special person is secretly getting tired of me. Quick disclaimer, we are not diagnosing anyone with BPD, nor are we here to romanticize the condition. Our goal is simply to explore the experiences of those navigating relationships while living with BPD, with empathy and understanding. BPD is a complex condition, drenched in extremes. You become very sensitive to stress in any kind of relationship. For those with BPD, love is both the anchor and the storm. This can cause them to have trust issues and negative feelings towards their partner easily after any kind of stressor. O'Leary, 2023, also mentions that relationship stressors can cause emotional dysregulation in those afflicted with BPD. A single misunderstanding can spiral into despair while a small gesture of love can feel like salvation. Magenta's words cut straight to the heart. When my mood changes, it can be frustrating because I can get so angry or too sad in just a moment. I know it's exhausting, not just for me, but for my partner. I get in a mode that I know is overwhelming for everyone. I hate it, but I can't help it. However, not everything needs to be a frustrating endeavor. It's the light in the chaos. People with BPD feel love with a rare electric intensity. It's a lens that can magnify beauty others might miss, too. Magenta glimpses this truth as well. I get to be a really sensitive person, so I can appreciate a lot of things in a way most people don't. It's like I find magic in normal things. A study by Bouchard and others showed that in about half of the studied couples where someone had BPD, both partners experienced satisfaction and tranquility in the relationship. O'Leary and others similarly found that BPD is often accompanied by a higher development of adaptive relationship skills. And when good coping methods were achieved, the relationships could be long-lasting and satisfactory. Therapy helps. Patience transforms. Being informed is crucial. But the real breakthrough comes when partners stop seeing BPD as the enemy and start fighting together. Magenta's plea cuts directly into the starting problem. They did not understand my insecurities, my jealousy, my mood changes, my need of constant reassurance. That I just wanted to be alone sometimes, but also feel loved and heard. Within the study by O'Leary, when couples showed openness toward discussing BPD, recognized negative patterns, and offered empathy to one another, their relationships strengthened and became manageable in the long term. In conclusion, dating with
與患有 BPD 的人約會，感覺就像試圖抓住水。無論你抓得多緊，它都會從指縫間溜走。上一秒你還在害怕對方會離開，下一秒你就把對方推開，只為試探對方是否會留下。為什麼愛情既像解藥又像毒藥？首先，讓我們來談談什麼是 BPD。BPD 是邊緣型人格障礙的縮寫，是指一個人難以調節自己的情緒，對拒絕高度敏感，通常在處理人際關係時會出現功能障礙。我們有一個關於如何判斷伴侶是否患有邊緣型人格障礙的視頻，請隨時查看。但這只是硬幣的一面。當您患有 BPD 並處於戀愛關係中時，會出現很多從外表不易察覺的問題。與患有 BPD 的人
- "I suffer from abandonment issues all the time.
史上最糟糕的15組父母！ (15 Worst Parents Of All Time)
- Here's hoping he doesn't grow up with any abandonment issues.
小販 Lorenzo Carse 發現。Lorenzo 說孩子坐在炙熱的水泥地上曬太陽，
- Here’s hoping he doesn’t grow up with any abandonment issues.
希望他長大後不會有被遺棄的問題。
父母對孩子說的8句傷人話！揭開令人窒息的親子溝通黑洞！ (8 Toxic Things Parents Say To their Children)
- "I'll leave you." "I'll put you aside." "You'll wake up and never find me." "I'll just disappear." This will cause the child to have abandonment issues, fearing that people they love will leave them because of who they are.
「我要把你丟掉。」、「我要把你放一邊。」、「你醒來就找不到我了。」、「我就這樣消失。」這會讓孩子產生被拋棄的陰影，害怕自己愛的人會因為自己而離開。
- "I'll leave you." "I'll put you aside." "You'll wake up and never find me." "I'll just disappear." This will cause the child to have abandonment issues, fearing that people they love will leave them because of who they are.
「我要把你丟掉。」、「我要把你放一邊。」、「你醒來就找不到我了。」、「我就這樣消失。」這會讓孩子產生被拋棄的陰影，害怕自己愛的人會因為自己而離開。
【Anna Akana】這些人生中的情緒包袱，你是不是也帶在身上？ (What's In My Baggage?)
- And of course, it's pretty deep in here but my abandonment issues are in every relationship
當然還有...它藏的很下面，但是我的被拋棄情結始終存在於每段關係中。
- Now, not everyone needs abandonment issues, you have to find the issues that work for you.
現在，不是每個人都需要被拋棄情結，你必須找一些對你有用的問題。